My brother's been caring for our parents for 12 years. Dad passed 6 years ago and mom has dementia. she is really getting to him now and and he really doesn't want to put her in a home because he is going to need what little money she has left for his retirement .He really not physically able to do much work anymore he is depressed and stressed out so bad. I get 1 or 2 phone calls a week from him threating to commit suicide.I tell him we have to put her in a home .but he doesn't want to because of the money. HELP. I need some answers.