My 86 year old mother and I have now been living in a garden home for four years. We have had minor confrontations in the past, but yesterday it really got heated. She has early onset dementia, loss of hearing in one ear(which she refuses to do anything about) yells for me and can't hear me when I answer back unless I yell back at her. Then as a result, she tells me not to scream at her. Told me I was the devil and hated her life. I cannot go on like this and neither should she. We both own the garden home so how can I convince her that moving to a retirement or assisted living community without causing more arguments.