I've always known my sister was selfish. Especially when it came to mom. There's only a 15 month age difference between us,I'm the youngest.. We grew up struggling and watching our mother make sacrifices. My sister is the mother of 12 (ex was a jerk). . Doctors wanted to treat mom for Alzheimer's and/or dementia. Recently she was finally diagnosed with depression. Mom is also suffering mentally. I'm upset with way to much for this space. My sister has flat out refused to help in mom's care. Only one of her children help and i have to pay him. I work seasonal for 2 1/2 months a year. Each time its a struggle. I was shown the door the other day when I told her I had to bring mom over in the morning. We showed up and no one answered or opened the door. She is forcing me to quit or get fired. She told me she raised her children already , she wasn't going to do it.. I told her I care for mom 310 days. I don't see why she can't do it for less...She just wants moms property.