I am so frustrated that I cant find a place for mom. My mom really needs a place that can take care of her and her needs but but for some reason there does not seem to be a place nor will anyone help me find one. She is in a place that is horrible and I don't feel safe with her there. I have called everyone only to find the same answer I cant help you. Dept of aging has been no help, the NH where she is at is a joke, they threaten to kick her out but wont find a place for her. I live in another state so I cant move her here, and such, this has been such a challenge that my health is getting bad, but I have to help my mom. AM I the only one in this boat. I need help which I cant seem to get, I am in tears all the time knowing that my mom may die in this miserable place where she is at, Her actions have gotten her here, with her eloping at the NM, and arguing, so my search is difficult. Working with her is a pain, it has to be done now, always now, I have no life, my children dont want to see her because of the way she acts, my husbands is mad at me about her, I work long hours and well I dont have a ton of time nor can I take off, my boss has no heart and well says what is more important the job or family. I am stuck, lost, sad and sick advice?