My mom had a severe brain injuring stroke in the fall of 2016. Since then my dad has not left her side except to go home to shower and sleep. At first I was going to the hospital two times a day ( for the first 6 months) & have recently started to go once a day to the assisted living facility she is now at. I usually go for an hour to an hour and a half, and I take my dad food everyday. If my dad has a doctor or dentist appt, he asks me ( only child) to stay with her. I have done this for the past several months, but it's starting to take a toll on me and my family (my husband and 2 children). I don't think my dad understands, or is even thinking about me, but I just can't continue at this pace. I'm also doing his laundry and bills, which I don't mind, but is time consuming. He goes to facility at 8am and leaves at 8pm or later. If I don't bring him dinner, he doesn't eat. I'm really stressed and need to cut back on my time. I love my parents and want to visit almost every day, but I can't be the "go to" when he needs to leave. I feel that she would be ok to be alone for a while. Please let me know what anyone thinks... I go from feeling guilty to feeling resentful to feeling angry. It's been so hard seeing my mom like this ( she has brain injury), but I feel like my family is starting to feel the strain and my dad is oblivious to me having a full plate with my husband, our kids, & all of my responsibilities. Am I selfish? Please advise... please let me knue how to talk to my dad without hurting him and making him angry. He's gone through so much, I don't want to make it harder on him, but I can't keep this up.