My 87 year old FIL is probably in stage 6 or maybe stage 7 of dementia. He thinks is living in the 1940s or 50s. He has always been a sociopath, but with this stage of dementia he has become very sexist and racist. His body is healthy but is mind is almost gone. He refuses to see anyone that isn't male or white. He also refuses to go outside of our home so we must have Doctors Making House Calls give him medical attention. We have requested a white male doctor and nurse but have been refused. We have also requested a white male home provider (we need help giving this man a bath) but have been refused. So, what is happening, this man, who due to his illness of not knowing any better, is being refused medical and home care treatment. He still has rights so I cannot just tie him up and force him to see a black nurse or home provider. Doctors Making House Calls have suggested we drug him so he doesn't know what is happening (she said they made a cream we could rub on his skin to drug him). The result is he is going without proper medical treatment. One last comment, we live in the South, and from what I can tell, home providers in this area do not hire white males. They have told me this, so they as employers are being racist and sexist. I say this is not right - any comments or advise.