Long story short: My mom is getting to the point where she should be on hospice (at home). She has multiple health problems as well as some dementia and can't make rational decisions. I tried to talk to her about hospice and she was horrified that I could mention such a thing.
She has 24/7 home care now, so it wouldn't be that different. She'd still be at home, just getting more services, and not being rushed to the ER with each new infection. Can I just put these services in place without telling her?