Struggling through my Trustee brother causing as much grief as possible after our mother's death two weeks ago. The day after her death, he convinced me to let him sell our mom's house, though there is a provision in her will allowing me to live in it after her death. We were supposed to meet with the attorney the day after her funeral, but I found out before the meeting that my brother had brought the attorney to our mom's house when my family was on vacation two weeks ago and tried to get Mom to remove me from her will. So I told him I wasn't going to the meeting and was getting a lawyer, which sent him through the ceiling as he is desperate to sell the house.
The day after my mom died he said I could take anything in the house that I wanted. Now he has changed the locks, and his attorney told me that if I take anything from the house I am stealing and will be charged with theft. My daughter is living there and he tried to throw her out.
We called the police and the police told him she could stay until a court order said she can't. Despite the police saying this, my brother is still trying to force her to move out.
He also said my daughter could have my mom's car and now says she can't and it has to be sold, along with everything else. My mom specified that her material assets were to be divided between my brother and me, and he said he wanted nothing. Can he change his mind now just to spite me? I do have a lawyer but God only knows when he will call me back. I thought someone else on here might know.
Oh and....people suck.