My dad has dementia. my mom does nothing to help him. she is not involved in his care nor will she do anything to the house to protect him. i have removed rugs and dangerous items so he will not hurt himself only to see it has been replaced. I have begged mom to look for nursing home care but has not done anything yet. i have found one for him but she will not do the paper work for him to be placed. Mom has about 300k cash and she does not want to use any of the money for his care. She continues to say I have to worry about me now. Mom is now going to a lawyer to protect herself her money, really his money because she has not worked a day in her life. I love my dad so much and just want him to be cared for. I have even thought about early retirement to care for him myself however I can't care for him and myself with no income. The other siblings are only worried about mom and money. No one has visited dad since he has entered the psych facility except for myself. I am sick to my stomach as to who my mother has become and my siblings aren't supporting dad at all. Only mom and money. Can she really get away with this?