My mother has dementia and was placed in a locked-down Alzheimer's facility 3 years ago. Since then, her husband and his son (both were POA at first, now the primary is the son-in-law) have made it difficult to visit by reporting me as wanting to kidnap my mother, called police when I tried to take her from the nursing home to get a hearing aid and have lunch out, restricted calls from family, etc. He sold or gave away all family possessions and heirlooms, and claims she is his mother now and will change her name, move her to a new facility, and will never let her move to the state where her children are who want to care for her. Her husband is now in an assisted living place, while she remains in a Medicaid nursing home bed in Florida. How can her children get her out of state without fighting in courts forever and with limited money resources?