After several minor changes to their POA and Will, my parents want to change their Will again (groan). Now, they want to change the percentage that each of 5 kids receive, and add their life-long church. I am wondering if the lawyer is allowed to talk to any of the siblings about the change, or really, the broader question is, how much discussion can a lawyer entertain among the family members. This lawyer is very talkative -!!- and I just hate to think of yet another big lawyer bill.