I need to move her to a facility cause she cannot afford 24 hour care in her home. I am 30 with three children and home life with her and them has put me over the edge. I feel as if the doctor is just taking her time while im running out of it. I need my personal space and sanity!!!! help I have a poa and dpoa cause my mother is a drug addict and has already swindled her out of 60 thousand dollars. She cant be trusted with her accounts or cooking and refuses to take 1/2 her meds as well as bath or change her clothes. I feel guilty that she cant stay in her own home, but i cant do this anymore. she has no friends no family just me and she only functions cause I'm here doing it all for her. Can I put her in a memorycare facility if she doesnt want to go????