My mother gave me power of attorney prior to having a fall which sent her dementia into fast forward. She is currently living with my sister (due to an extremely ugly family feud.) My mom told me she never wanted to go back to my sister's house for a number of reasons. She told me exactly how she wanted what little she had divided up. She also told me that she wanted her 2 daughters cremated remains scattered with hers when she passes. I want to honor her wishes. However, I still have my mom's belongings to include the cremated remains of my sisters. I told them to come for them months ago and they didn't. Now my mom is under Hospice care at home and they have started calling me about returning the cremated remains. I told them no because I was going to make sure my mom's wishes were followed (at least with this!) Now my sister has hired an attorney and is suing me for the return of my mom's belongings. My mom is now in hospice and sleeps most of the day. She doesn't even know what's going on. I don't want to fight and part of me just wants to give up too. I have always lived for my mom but she was impossible to please. My inner child wants to do this to please her and so that I can feel like I kept my word. I am very hard on myself and have been in therapy working on this. God knows I love my mom and would do anything for her. This has just been too much for me.