My daughter is here every day to help me with my MIL. My MIL requires 24 7 care as she can't do anything for herself, taking pills (twice daily), meals and snacks, toileting, bathing, etc (ADLS?). I handle her monthly bills, most set up to be paid out of her checking account automatically. My question would be can my daughter be paid monthly or weekly as primary caregiver? I would like to bypass the government completely, if possible.