She was writing some before. Before she started to forget a lot. She was writing a small check to me almost once a month as a gift. Sometimes she forgot, and I did not have the heart to tell her that she forgot. So now that she can not remember a lot, can I still write myself a check without any repercussions or problems? I do a lot for her. Such as driving her places, paying her bills, going to get her necessities and her prescriptions. When she sold her house, I took care of everything, including packing all the items she wanted to keep, etc. Finding a moving company etc. ( I did not asked for any payments... etc).(Except for the moving comp.).