I am POA and executor for my father. My deceased sister had 2 children who are 1/2 beneficiaries of his estate. Since my mother has passed last summer, I am at his house (I live 25 miles away) 4 times a week. He has ALZ. My two nephews live 1000 miles away and do not call him or me. I bring him food, buy his clothes, etc. I have had to quit my job to be more available for him. I do not want to be compensated for my time, but the gas, food, clothes and other miscellaneous is putting a strain on my budget. I pay all his bills. Can I reimburse myself for the groceries, gas, etc. that I pay? I keep records on my expenses but I don't want hard feelings. When I ask Dad for a little help, he says he will get around to it,, but obviously he doesn't. I don't want to sound petty, but I could use a little payback on this. I don't want my nephews to think I am stealing from Dad - I just want to be reimbursed. Considering they never contact us, will it even be an issue down the line?