He had a stroke 4 years ago in march. and has went downhill ever since. He is so heavy for me to pick up and 6ft tall. His right leg is kind of twisted to the side and it's so hard to lift him. I am wore out to I have to keep taking care of him. I dont want anyone strange coming in to the house. I work parttime also. Do I have to have a Doctors slip or some kind of legal paper to put him into a nursing home? I just can't do this anymore!