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I live in Texas and retired in 2006. My only asset is my IRA. Since my retirement, no additional funds have been added to it, and I take my RMD, plus more, each month to supplement my expenses. We have no other assets such as life insurance, real estate, or any other source of income except Social Security. We have only been married 10-years and my wife has no access to my IRA. She is currently in a memory care unit of a nursing home, but the monthly cost is to me is a problem. Her only source of income is considerably less than $2000, coming from Social Security and a very small pension. Her only expense is her health insurance premium. I am going to have to move her into a long-term care facility that accepts Medicaid, An elder law attorney told me that I can probably retain my entire IRA and that Medicaid would probably rely only upon her small monthly income. Is that correct? Before moving to the nursing home, I paid everything; rent, utilities, food, etc. Has anyone experienced a similar situation and would be willing to share their thoughts?Thank you!

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Bigbear304: Go to Medicaid.gov.
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If you have spoken to elder care attorney, then you have all the expert info. Caĺl him or have another meeting so you understand all your options.
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In some states, there is the concept of "spousal refusal". Make sure you speak to a well qualified Elder Law attorney to see if that's an option in your situation.
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JoAnn29 Aug 29, 2025
Thank you. Could not remember what it was called.
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Big, Ok so if your bride goes into a SNF/NH and you remain living in your home, then you are considered to be the “Community Spouse” as LTC Medicaid rules apply. As a CS in Texas you are allowed to retain up to $154,140.00 as your own assets. This is why the atty you spoke with told you that IRA of yours will be just fine. AND…. if you also as a CS can show you need some of her own income (like her own SS$) to enable you to staying living in your community, you can have your attorney work up how you can file a CS waiver to have some of her mo income that usually almost all goes to the NH as her required Share of Cost / Resident Liability (less a whopping $75 a mo.) to instead have some of her income go to you. It happens but stuff like this isn’t a DIY project.

You’re in RMD mode right? That RMD $ will probably be considered “income” and it will mate up with whatever you get as your own SSA income + any pension you maybe also get. For a CS their own income - unless it really high cotton $$$ each month - probably will not be taken into consideration for your brides own income situation for her own LTC Medicaid eligibility. She - for LTC Medicaid in TX - has to have her own income under $2,901.00 & her own nonexempt assets at 2K maximum. If she is at these points then is financially at need for LTC Medicaid eligibility. fwiw A home that is a primary residence and 1 car are exempt assets. If y’all have a ranch or have O&G/mineral rights, they are real common to have and probably will not be an issue.

But there’s all these other things that couples have that will need to be dealt with. Imho never ever a DIY. You need an elder law atty who is used to NH/CS situations and know how to segregate joint assets that are compliant for how LTC Medicaid looks at financials for her eligibility. A lot of Estate attorneys are all about tax sheltering and avoiding probate. That not what you need so clearly ask their expertise with TX LTC Medicaid. It’s impt that you get on this now because TX does the snapshot approach to determining assets. The date she files for LTC sets the snapshot day to which the assets are affixed. It’s easier if things are segregated before this. Like if y’all have 2 cars, 1 gets sold or both get sold and you get 1 better newer car with a car payment. That car payment may be tight for your own solo monthly income and gives a rationale as why you do need some of her income waived over to you. Comprende?

There’s other lil things….. like everything that has her as a “beneficiary of” should probably be has changed. For example, If you have her as the beneficiary of your 50K sm life insurance policy, and you get hit by a bus, what then??? That 50K kicks her off LTC Medicaid and you’re gone so who’s going to deal with this for her? This is an example of one of the many things that can be an issue for CS / NH situation.

Couples stuff is way complex. Not a DIY. Work with an atty. Find a Medicaid savvy atty.
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igloo572 Aug 28, 2025
Also would,like to add that LTC Medicaid eligibility is based on BOTH medical AND financial “at need” status.

The financial is what folks get all wadded about. But the finances involved things that you have control over. It’s things you can deal with. Most States have the SNF/NH applicant at a max of $2,901 a mo in income and 2K max of nonexempt assets.

The “medically at need” aspect is equally as important. And in many ways it can be harder to do as you have to work with the applicants healthcare providers to establish in their health chart that they absolutely are at need for skilled nursing care in a facility. Just being old, or having some dementia or needing help bathing may not be enough to establish skilled nursing care required.

The majority of NH admits are that they are hospitalized and then are discharged to a SNF/NH for rehab. Both the hospitalization and rehabilitation are health insurance benefits. Then at some point they stop being eligible for rehab and segueway from a rehab patient on health insurance to a custodial care resident at need for skilled care in a NH. This resident will have a nice fat health chart that clearly shows “need”. Plus They have been at the facilty for the 30 days that TX nowadays wants to have happen before a LTC Medicaid application can be done.

Financial is important but medical is also.
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Someone mentioned on the forum ages back that you can sign something that says you will not be financially responsible for your wife. Ask your lawyer about it. The IRA is yours and needs to be protected.
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Sorry, I saw you had posted twice before and Geaton had responded.
I thought this was a third post of the same question. I don’t see those posts now.

Not sure what is happening with your posts BigBear.

If you don’t have confidence in your elder attorney, perhaps find another?

I personally believe any non commingled property you owned before marriage is exempt but there could be factors I’m not aware of. Each case is unique and as Medicaid is state specific I would find a certified elder attorney as soon as possible who you have researched. It’s a great stress reliever to have a professional assisting on such important matters.
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Bigbear304 Aug 27, 2025
Thank you for your response! ! I’m not sure why my posts are problematic!
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