Hi all. I’m severely conflicted. I’ve been estranged from my mom but not my brother. She’s in hospice care and says she wants to die at home. My brother is a high functioning autistic man with mild cerebral palsy. I know for a fact he can’t handle the burden of her death if I’m not there. I’m the only income at their home currently because the SSI covers their basics. He’s with her 24/7 and quite frankly, she’s dying quite soon as she’s showing all the signs. I will be sad but not the same as one who’s actually kept a non toxic relationship with those good parents. I want her to pass in the hospital while being monitored at all times. Is that the right thing to do so my brother doesn’t have to bear the burden of finding her dead?