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If your mom cannot afford a nice facility you should consider having her apply for Medicaid. My MIL is in a very nice place on Medicaid. She gets lots of attention and does more things socially than we could ever do for her. Medically she is carefully watched. Your mom won't like it (it's a huge change at that age and with dementia) but again please read the posts about burnout). Wishing you clarity as you make this decision.
Perhaps you might reconsider this avenue. If she can self pay, I would look into AL, if not then see if she qualifies for Medicaid. There are many nice homes available which accept Medicaid.
Sit back and think this through, all the way to the end.
You will not have employee benefits.
You will not have paid holidays.
You will not have overtime.
You will not have worker's compensation.
You will not have disability insurance.
You will not have paid sick time.
You will not have a lot of money.
From everything I understand, it is starvation "wages".
Your question, in myriad incarnations, has been asked and answered many times. Quit your job to become a full time caregiver with eyes wide open.
If you’ve been out of work for years, it’s not likely you can pick up where you left off. You’ll be years behind, while younger people have taken your place. You could get some form of employment... but ending up back at square one when your peers are retiring is going to be a rough experience, and you may never recover the life you have now.