My Mom lives with my brother. I have actually taken her to every doctor appointment, eye, ear, or general, for the last 12 years since she quit driving, over the last 5 years, her mind has really slipped, my brother, my mom, and I have always been in agreement on things, but now my brother drove her to her bank and had her block me from her account, which I could care less about, but he also goes out, and doesnt call me or anyone else to say he is leaving, so she is alone, I fell this is unsafe, and he denies it, he puts a note by the phone(which she has no clue how to use now) with 911 on it. He made a Dr appointment just because, then after talking to me realized she didnt need the appointment. I have always took care of her medications, dementia, diabetes, and high blood pressure, but now since its his house, he is telling me nothing, I am a nurse, he has a history of drug and alcohol abuse, and he has no clue about certain things. She had a stroke a year ago, I stayed with her in the hospital the whole time, when we came home, and my brother who lived with her worked, my neighbor sat with her anytime I called, so she would never be alone, now my brother doesnt work, and he is there for the most part, but refuses to call me to sit with her. Can I get medical POA over her in this situation, I dont want her money or that side of things, only whats best for her. I would love for her to stay where she is comfortable which is her home, but I am at a loss. Her doctors and all of the staff to that aspect, havent ever even seen my brother, and now that her memory is pretty far gone, he wants to take over.