My step-Father is literally a road block with every health care decision I want to make for my Mother. My step-Father can hardly walk because of back issues, he refuses to use a walker, he falls all the time and he has rubber bones. He refuses to talk about a care facility. He cannot remember to give my Mother her medication because he drinks at night. My step-Father cannot take care of my Mother and my Mother cannot take care of him. I have Medical and Durable POA over the both of them. I would like my Mother to go to a memory care facility where she would get regular meals and care. I work full-time and cannot take care of her. I have a care-giver coming into their house every Tuesday night to fix dinner. (That's all my step-Dad would allow). My Mother is so tiny, she's not getting good nutrition and she's not drinking enough liquids. HELP! All 6 of my sisters live out of state and refuse to come help.