My mom died in 2015, and then came to find out my parents were financially ruined. We had to sell their double wide and my dad moved in with me abs my family. He is using a portion of his ssi to pay for my mom's funeral abs then will start paying for his own. He has some money left from the monthly ssi for food, gas, cigarettes, etc. But, towards the end of the month, that money is gone and then I have to buy him whatever he needs. I take care of him with no help from my sisters, take him to his drs appointments and such. I'm the only one of the three of us that had a job. Can a send them a monthly bill for av third of what I pay our each month? And have them start to help posing for my dad's services as well? God forbid he dies in the best future, there world be no way I could afford a funeral myself.