My father is 99 and I just moved him across the country to live with me. He was living in Squalor as he couldn’t care for himself. My sister wanted to leave him there. She is wealthy and I’m not. I’m going into debt caring for him. At his age his resources are limited. She won’t help at all. And to make it worse she’s on everything so I can’t make a decision without her signature. My dad left the house to us and put it in both of our names but she won’t sell it. So I’m working long hours, paying for elderly care in my home, and I’m negative each month. I don’t know what to do. I can’t afford an attorney and she would have a top notch one anyway. Can I save receipts for his care expenses and at least get reimbursed when he passes? My sister won’t go for it but if at least know I have some rights or recourse I could get a 2nd mortgage on my house or something. Love my dad and am so grateful I get to spend this time with him but I’m so overwhelmed and can’t make any decisions to help! I do have POA for his medical and can pay his bills and things. He hasn’t given me access to his savings though so I’m just getting his very small monthly which is going to maintain his house (that my sister won’t sell!!!). Thanks for your input!