His daughter sued him after we got married. She has had nothing to do with him since she financially took advantage of him by drawing up trusts and forging his name and then seeing him while he had a broken pelvis, could not show up for court yet was deemed incompetent in a Virginia Beach court. Several people including attorneys where we live now know full well he is very competent. Can I as his legal spouse get guardianship to keep the conservator from spending his money on frivolous lawsuits the daughter continues to bring up in court? Desperate here!