Apparently he had a history of molesting young girls for years that I was not aware of and his wife enabled his behavior with denial. They are unable to care for their personal hygiene and their home is filthy. They are both frequently incontinent of both bladder and bowels. They have refused in-home care and nursing home placement. She has been calling me to “clean her up”. I want to refuse I am unable and unwilling to provide this level of care. I really don’t want to have anything to do with either one of them.