My Mom and Dad both need professional care, but neither one wants it. Three of us siblings share the responsibilities of caretaker, but it's getting so bad we're just no longer enough. We need to do something, but Mom and Dad won't cooperate.
A family member talked to a social worker who told a story about a son who was charged with elder abuse when his mother didn't want to go to a facility even though she needed to. Could that happen to us?