He is in a brain trauma rehab center. My brother lived in Mexico for over 20 yrs as he was living on SSI. He lost an arm & shoulder in an industrial accident. He was found down at home. Was flown up here to UCSD, then to the rehab ctr in Marin County, CA. The daughters had not visited him until this year. And had very little contact. The one daughter was disowned from the family after my mother died for illegal activities. (One ex: She stole my mother's credit card from her purse while my mother was crashing in ICU.) We don't want to take control. We just want to see him & see if we can find out his wishes. My sister has facetimed him & he indicated he knew who she was. We want to try to see him & find out his wishes. We both visited him in Mx about 5 years ago & he said he never wanted to leave Mx. There is a trustee of a small trust, but he could never get my brother to sign paper work for durable power of health, guardian, etc. He is not compliant & had been a criminal most of his life. But we do care about.