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Laws vary state-to-state. I suggest at very least you arrange for an initial consultation with an elder law attorney. Here in Virginia most of them do not charge for the initial consultation.
My MIL is not the most pleasant of people....very critical of everything at the Home. She loved it when she first went there. Now everything is terrible and she is sorry she ever went there. She is at the point now, where she expects everything done for her. From bathroom to getting in and out of bed, and she must be pushed in the wheelchair, she cannot move it on her own with her feet. I took her out for lunch for her birthday, and it was all I could do to get her in and out of my car. She is a big woman, and I use a transport chair because her wheelchair is way too much for me to handle. I am totally frustrated with this situation. My dear parents left this world peacefully 10 years ago. And I have been saddled with my inlaws since I married my husband. My own children will have nothing to do with them, because of my MIL being so very critical of them. My MIL hates Jews, blacks and whatever else she decides. My one daughter married a wonderful Jewish fellow, and another daughter married a wonderful black fellow. Both have beautiful children. Another daughter had a child out of wedlock....that child has my heart and is a diabetic since the age of 4. She is now 16 and healthy. But my MIL will always have something to say about all of them.
Sorry to be so ranting, but sometimes you just have to let off steam:))
Jane