Yes she has Dementia. She asks about me and she's being lied to by the POA. I have been her life for the past 17.5 years.The POA lives within 12 miles of us and never came to see her mom.I ask for some assistance to help with mom while I worked.She is on medication now and doing better from what I'm told.She has put her in an assisted living facilty.She has never like being alone at night.The other siblings do not agree with the POA or what she is doing.
It sounds as though you were not able to provide the full time supervision she needed. You must be glad that she's doing better!
Are you perhaps being asked to stay away until she settles in?