My 96 year old mom is behaving very mean and nasty with her provider by being mean and accusing her provider of trying to kill her and stealing her things in the house like blankets and sweaters and anything she wants. When i ask her about it she says that i dont know her cause im not there. she is alone with the provider for about 5 hours but we my sisters and i can see that what my mom says is not true . she gets jealous and says that we love the provider more than her just cause we tell her that she would not do anything like that. she makes life miserable for herself by waking up mad at the provider and not letting her help her by dressing her or she will not let her comb her hair.