My friend's mother had a heart attack that resulted in some brain damage and had to be put on a ventilator. He is her care giver and her son/POA and he refuses to make her a DNR. He is involved in and has a say in every apect of her care. He has been at her bedside almost 24/7 for over a month now and her condition has improved, but only slightly so far. Now the hospital has banned him from the hospital, he can be obnoxious and questions the Drs and he has called respiratory therapy when he thinks she needs suctioning etc but their number is written on communication for patients to have. He also has a reputation for an incident that happened 20 years ago and I think they are also letting that and the fact they don't want to deal with him any longer be the reason for them banning him. Now he cannot even see his mother that could pass at anytime and he is devastated. He has cared for her and lived with his mother when she could not live alone. They are very close.