The papers said that this person (his mother) should be and hereby appointed over the person (fiancee/living togther 5yrs) and estate of that someone and that as conservator, bond, inventory and accounting unto the court be waved. How can they get conservatorship with out knowing if I already had poa over this someone?
You mention a coma. If he is now in a vegetative state or it looks like this is permanent and you are not his wife, seek legal help ASAP. At 5 years engagement and possible co mingling of money, his mom may file for Medicaid, which means a big financial mess for you. You are not getting enough medical info to know about his wakefulness after 2 weeks of induced coma. If he was of clear mind, you would be able to visit under his consent and that is not happening.
Based on your response he is at least 3 weeks in the hospital. Once discharged to rehab, he only gets 3 weeks before it begins to get expensive and this may nor be enough time for him to come home in good mental or physical condition. Head injury can take months of recovery
On the other hand if a permanent vegetative state is his condition, do you want to handle NH care and costs for the rest of your life? This is a big burdon. Seek professional advice for yourself. You can ask the lawyer if you could be involved in visitation and medical decisions since you had a POA, but you also need to protect your finances. You could end up worse off here.
So yes, a conservator can say who and who can't visit. Just wondering if the Judge knew a POA was in place.
Please ignore the Dr. Robert comment and "troll", as he is a spammer and will be removed from the forum.
What do you think the problem is with you not being allowed to see your fiance?
Is his mother preventing you in some way?