she is 83 yr old and has severe dementia. She hasn't been home which is 125 miles from here in over 50 years. She determined to go get a place to stay by herself with her furniture. I been caring for her for 4 years and she lived with me over 20 yrs. I don't know what to tell her to make her calm and realize that she cannot go back home. How do you stop her from being so angry that she not getting her way? If I can just get through her to make her understand and accept that she cannot go back. I keep telling her we'll go in a few days but I need help with this one. I am desperate and trying all my will to take care of her to the very end.