Mom is in memory care. She does not have Alzheimer's but has vascular dementia caused by a stroke. She enjoys coming over to my house for a visit. However, I brought her to my house over Christmas. She was away from her residence for 3 nights. Mom was agitated at times, incontinent, confused. I think bringing her to my house was for me and not the best for her. I should have just picked her up Christmas Eve and again Christmas Day for a few hours. What are thoughts concerning this?