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Do not trade off the car. Drive it until it has 250000 miles on it and the engine is just about to blow. Then leave it in the worst one's front yard, leaking oil and smoking, tires flat, with a signed title and a bag of dog turds in the front seat.

Realistically, you sound like a nice person that would never do that...but I hope I made you laugh for a second....! Hang in there and remember that no good deed goes unpunished!
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I agree don't countersue. Other than that I have no answers.
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Ohforgodssake don't counterclaim! - they would love it, and it'll drag on for decades. Just keep batting them away, as you have been, quite rightly. The key thing is for it not to be interesting or exciting or for them ever to feel they're getting anywhere. Eventually they will run out of legal avenues and hopeful shysters. It would be wonderful if you could get the Supreme Court to say "there is no basis to any claim against your sister so GO AWAY and never darken a court door again" but I'm not aware of any mechanism available for you to do that. If they defame you out of court you could tell your lawyer to earn his money and warn them off doing that, but beware of adding fuel to the flames (especially if there is no actual defamation on account of their having no credibility).

At the end of Bleak House, several people are dead or mad, the entire estate has gone in costs, and the lawyers in Chancery are laughing their heads off. The moral of the story is: don't go to Law.

But I like the sound of your lawyer. I like lawyers who don't get excited and create (expensive) work for themselves.
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A lawsuit dismissed without prejudice can be refiled. A lawsuit dismissed with prejudice cannot be refiled.
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and when they run out of money they'll get welfare lawyers.
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In my opinion, from what you've shared here, they've got nothing. I see that evidenced by their being on their third lawyer. It'll end very soon -- when they run out of money. Sounds like they're probably close.

Remember. It's not up to you that you did nothing wrong. It's up to them to prove that you did.

No good deed goes unpunished.
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Oh, and sadly there probably is not an end to it.
I don't know why the judge did not completely toss it out of court.
What is that... with or without prejudice? It it gets tossed out one way, the bas**rds can't refile or something. At least I think that is how it works.
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""The one that worked for the government was using government computers to access all my and my parent's personal information. The email accusing me of doing drugs was traced back to his place of work."""
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAHAHAHAAAAA
good riddance to bad rubbish.
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The one that worked for the government was using government computers to access all my and my parent's personal information. The email accusing me of doing drugs was traced back to his place of work.
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There has definitely been libel and slander. I have a letter they sent to my parent's neighbor, stating I was "emotionally unstable" and sent them a key to the house telling them they could enter it anytime. Those neighbors called me immediately and gave me the letter and key. They then made up an email address and sent an email to my husband attaching an article about a woman on drugs. The subject line read, "Get Mary help". Then one had junk mail in his, his wife's and kids names sent to my address..I had to put in a change of address at the post office. Oh, there's more. That's just a few. I reported one that worked for the Government and he lost his job.
The lawyers they have dealt with don't want to deal with them anymore. One went to the court and asked to be removed. The brothers never paid but unfortunately the lawyers would rather take a loss of pay then to deal with them.
The house was sold after the brothers held out for a year, luckily the buyer waited it out. They first claimed they didn't know it was for sale..the for sale sign was on the house when they showed up with a Budget truck and took everything in the house. Then they said they didn't agree to a realtor,they wanted me to sell it, so they wanted me to pay the realtor fees. They wouldn't pay any bills on the house, I was doing it all, finally after 3 months I told them I paid my 1/4, now it's their turn since they weren't signing off.(And I got a great price!) They finally signed the paperwork a year later-I think it was affecting FASFA for one of their kids going to college.
Such a mess. I am so tired of it. I am a very patient person, but this is getting to me now. I had a hard time mourning my father's death because I had to be strong for my mom. Now I want closure for my mom's death but it's hard to do when they continually attack me. If there is a lawyer out there that wants to step in and help, please do. I'm in a small town, not many choices. I do like my lawyer though, just wish he would get in attack mode.
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Should have written "home was split, 4 ways"....
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Turn the tables on the brothers and countersue, for at least harassment, possibly slander and/or libel, depending on whether they made public verbal or written accusations or both. The written accusations in the complaints would at least be libelous.

Slander addresses verbal accusations; libel is written (generally - the definitions are more precise),

Ask the attorney(s) who defended you, if the suits have not yet been dismissed, about the possibility of countersuing. You will have to pay attorney fees, but at least you'll be taking the offensive and putting the brothers on the defensive. Fight back!

As CM raises that issue, ask also about the possibility of getting a TRO to prevent further defamation activities. You may not be able to stop the suit, but you'll be making a stand by countersuing, and if you get a restraining order, you'll at least be able to stop some of the defamatory actions as well as show them you're not going to acquiesce to their harassment.

Depending on how the order is written and specific prohibitions, a TRO could act as a gag order, and could even extend to banks, doctors and others with whom you had contact while caring for your mother.

Also ask the attorneys about including counts for frivolous actions, since a judge said the suit was frivolous. Years ago when I worked in litigation, local court rules were amended to address frivolous actions.

If you do countersue, be sure that your "prayer" (as it was described years ago and may still be), includes a request for monetary compensation for the ill effects you've suffered. Perhaps if they're hit with a countersuit that requests a few hundred thousand dollars for the emotional pain, distress and other effects you've suffered, then they'll reconsider their actions.

If your attorneys are too gracious to handle a countersuit, check with lawyers who have a reputation for being aggressive. You can find litigation lawyers through your local bar association, then check their websites to see what their practice areas are. Sometimes you can get a feel for their attitudes by what they write about their practices and their successes.


You wrote that you blocked contact; do you have a PPO against them? You wrote also that they didn't pay their attorneys, if I understand correctly. Are those attorneys undertaking collection action against the brothers? if the attorneys are successful in getting judgments, that will affect the brothers' credit rating.

You also wrote that the home was split, and that the 2012 taxes are delinquent. Is the home sold, and if not, what's the status of the property taxes on that? As to the delinquent 2012 income taxes, the failure of the successor executor (personal representative)to timely address them is a reflection of his inability to handle financial matters. Raise that in your countersuit.

Good luck.
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That is a very interesting question. Unfortunately it is at its most interesting in the novel Bleak House, which I don't recommend you read right now. I wish I could say that three years is a long time in the context; all I can do is send you huge sympathy and say three years is far too long for this nonsensical spite to have carried on.

So, lawyers reading: what kind of injunction is available to this lady to force her brothers to cease and desist from harassing her with their vexatious and manifestly baseless claims? How would you go about putting yourselves out of a job?
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