My dad is 89, diabetic, has BHP, a piece of metal from an 88 mm. WW II tank round in his left hip which has worked its way into the sciatic nerve, and has left him bed bound. My dad has developed several pressure ulcers which has been treated by a physician, but I have been blasted with the criticism when none of them have offered to help. It has been left to my 85 year old mother and myself to take care of him, and this has taken a great toll on my mother's health, and mine too, because I am 55. We have been advised to turn my dad every two-four hours, and this includes night time, so I am taxed heavily on my sleep, and peace of mind, and it is causing me to run a low grade fever. I could use more help from my family, but it would be a greater peace of mind for them to stop the criticism, because at this point I would rather for them to not to be around mom, and dad, because it is stressing them out also. Thanks!