My brother almost died 2 years ago, but we fought for him and he survived (critical event with low blood sugar and his neighbors apparently told EMS that he had terminal metastasized lung cancer).
During the summer last year, he finally began to care for himself with baths and straightening his room, etc.
Now he wants to move out and be with his friends in the old neighborhood. The old neighborhood has suffered urban renewal ? But he located some friends.
I am 76 years old and have other family members who also require my care. I cannot run over and take him to his many dr appointments, take him to pay the bills he will create etc as My sister and I have done in the past.
My brother did not do well in the past in this situation ...........and now I fear that I also have legal liability on top of everything else.
I tried to reach out for help ( I am not experienced in getting help or where to turn) but everything seems locked down. Area agency on aging sent a letter.
How can I find what is right for my brother ?