My mom lives with me and has mild dementia. I say mild only because she rehearses facts daily with her diary. We see her failing each day. Others think she's fine. The doctor has ok'd mom to make a 10/12 hr trip to Mi. (He isn't the one taking her).she is super frail and has potty problems. She will have to take a lomotil. She makes weird sounds in the truck so I will need to wear earphones. My question is if she stays with my brother and he talks her into an action I would not approve of such as a reverse mortgage, revising her POA and Trust...what should I do? I know that would take time, but since he is a financial mooch I worry what he might try. Mom has no access to her bank accounts because she has resigned as Trutee. I have been protecting her from financial elder abuse while she lives with me. My brother has had an easy time getting money from mom before. We take care of all her needs and now this situation is coming up. Am I worrying too much?