Brother wants to take Mother on a 4 day trip to Colorado to visit Sister. I am Power of Attorney for Health and Durable. I say no because of her Anxiety, Alzheimers/Dementia. She gets agitated at Sundown. It is not a Good idea that I see and her Doctors say it is not a Good idea. She lives in a Assisted Living Retirement Facility and they say they cannot hold her there. But they cannot release the meds, only I can do that. I will not because I say she cannot go. They will take her without the meds. Isn't this abuse?? What can I do?