My mom made me POA and since my dad (who has dementia) and brother found out, they are not happy. My brother has seen our parents about 4 times in 42 yrs and now thinks he can sit on his but from NJ (we're in FL) and tell my parents what to do. Since she has been in an assisted facility, her mental health has declined and now my brother told my dad to take her home against everyone's advice. My mom had over 23k in the bank in her own name. She did not trust my dad since he is an addicted gambler. By the time I took POA to the bank, there was a little over 8k in there and large checks made to cash which my dad forged. He has his own bank account which he is giving to my brother along with the house, etc. This is not a lot of money in today's times but it seems to be a big deal to my brother! I haven't done anything wrong. I just want what's best for my mom and I sure don't want my 91 yr old dad trying to lift and care for my mom when I can't even do it by myself! Since I will not cooperate with my brother, he said he is suing me for embezzlement . I have added some of my own funds to my mom's account to make it an even 10k. I was under the impression that I was to do what was necessary for my mom and pay her bills. Not sure what to think of this?