She needs that money for Medicaid now....he can't pay it back...help!!! She is blind, is on dialysis and lived with him for 5 years. She has helped support he and his wife many times over the years and he has also spent her social security and pension checks each month too. She went into a nursing home early 2015 and Medicaid has determined if he doesn't pay back the money from the sale of the house, mom will have to go back to live with him.....P.S. borderline elder abuse too. He is only one with power of attorney.