My brother who is mom's POA and guardian is moving my mom from her ALC the middle of next month against the doctor's advice. She is in the middle to late stages of dementia and she has been in doll therapy for over a year. At first I was against the therapy, but now that I have seen how much it helps her and know how much it means to her I know how important it is to her mental health. However, my brother is forbidding to bring the doll with her. She will be moving in with them and we have some valid concerns for her health and well being. We tried family mediation, but he came in with a bad attitude and scoffed at all suggestions. His wife will be the main caretaker of mom and will be getting paid from the trust. My brother works out of town most of the time. He said that there would be no visition at their house, if we wanted to see her we would have to pick her up and take her and bring her back. Also against doctor's advice. He also stated his wife would only be caring for her 8 hours a day. She is incontinent and in a wheelchair. We were told to come get all of our things from her room such as pictures and personal belongings, all of which were gifts to her. We refuse to remove them until he takes her out. He took her to her old family doctor the other day, he is just a regular doctor who doesn't have anything to do with dementia or geriatrics. My brother refuses to listen to anyone. Doctor's, lawyers, family. He thinks since he is the POA he can make all the rules. I have no desire to be POA, I am just concerned for my mom's health and well being. I am probably just venting here. Even the APS said we didn't have much of a chance even if we filed for Emergency Guardianship since he is the POA and Gaurdian. Can anyone offer us any hope? I think we have done just about all we can. It is just very frustrating and sad.