I feel I am not being paid enough for his care and housing. My brother in law is power of attorney and has decided what he thinks 24/7 care is worth. I do not want to be tied down for 1000 a month. My father in law has enough to pay more but with advanced Alzheimer does not handle his own finances. Would not mind job so my husband can have his dad home. 4 children and no help. How do I get him to pay?