When my sister drinks, her early dementia symptoms get worse. She has had multiple mild strokes that have affected her short term memory. My niece and I have POA and MPOA and my sister has her own will/trust but brother-in-law doesn't know yet-all hell will break loose when he finds out. He is pressuring my sister to give him access to money that is solely hers. Most of the family believe he is trying to hasten her demise as his personal mantra is "whoever dies last wins".
There is no money to speak of so putting my sister into an assisted living facility isn't an option. We don't know what to do to protect her. APS was called but nothing came of it. Help!