The home my brother stays in also has people with similar issues. I was contacted recently by the lady who runs the home. She told me that she believes my brother is developing dementia. My brother receives social security. The caretaker told me that they would not be able to care for him if he is getting dementia. There is no way I can afford $4000 a month to put him in a nursing home with dementia care. There are no funds other than his social security. Where do I go to get financial assistance to care for him? I work full time and am unable to help.