Their home is absolutely filthy, and dirty: mouse droppings on counters, junk crammed everywhere, (including inside the dishwasher), unusable bedrooms due to piles of boxes and trash, etc. They have lots of cats: urine smells and stains, cat hair and cat litter everywhere. They also have an aggressive cat that scratches and bites my mom. When I bring any of this up, they both get defensive and tell me everything is fine, and that I make a big deal out of everything. It’s truly a health hazard and I can’t believe they think it’s ok to live this way. Truly, it’s a biohazard. Does my brother get to make all of her decisions because he has POA? He makes terrible decisions because he can’t tell the difference anymore. Ideally, I’d like my mom to live with me (I have three young children who she should see more often), but my brother says she doesn’t want to (when I ask her, she says she does). I’ve offered to hire cleaners, housekeepers, home health care aides for her if she wants to stay in her house, but they keep refusing.