My mother has Dementia/Alzheimers. (diagnosed 2014) I have three siblings, the only caregiver. I am Medical and Financial POA. My mother now needs home care (out of pocket), and now a wheelchair. My brother won't pay the invoices in time unless I badger him to death, he says he's not buying a wheelchair. I don't know what to do to get him to pay for her care. She gave it to him for safekeeping for her time of need and it's time now for special care. But he won't answer texts or calls unless I threaten to take her to his house and that wakes him up. He moved to a remote place so no one would bother him and his greedy wife.
He's real ugly to me and swears at me when I do finally get texts from him. Don't I have the right to try to get that money from him and put it in her account? Also if he does reimburse her, he signs the back of it and even knows her account number. At the time she thought she could trust him because he's a retired policeman.