I just found out that my brother had my mom's POA changed to a DPOA and had my name removed with his daughter as secondary instead of mine. I cared for her for years in the beginning & he did nothing. As soon as she couldn't handle her finances he pushed me out & would call the police repeatedly saying I was harassing her.
He lied to my mom & made her paranoid of me so if I tried to call her or see her he would call the police. Mom will not go against him because he is now her caretaker & he yells at her to get his way. She now is acting angry at my 2 sons who she has always been close to & who have helped her immensely.
I know she had dementia when she signed these new documents & didn't understand the power they give him. How could someone who doesn't know her notarize these papers?