Mom has dementia. We care for her as she went to the hospital with malnutrition and failure to thrive while living with the younger brother. I am angry! She has sundowners and does not sleep, therefore I do not sleep and I still care for her during the day. We needed the 5 day break in care (my husband still works and has been sleep deprived also). All his brothers do is bitch about where she was for the 5 days. We are also looking to a more permanent placement as she is a handful. I am disabled and she is turning to be too much for me to handle with a bad back. So I trying to find a place, nice, within her budget, but the younger brother is the one on the checking account. None of us has power of attorney or conservatorship so this has to be a family decision, but I think they want me to continue to care for her! Any ideas?